A hooker will keep your secrets and never judge…

There is the notion that sometimes men ‘just want to chat’… while that’s just NOT TRUE, there are times when a hooker’s job is much more than just pure animal instinct fulled sex.

Regardless to whether or not you believe it, all men come to me with a mindset that they have already built and perfected – their way of rationalizing and normalizing coming to see a hooker.

But what i have learned about being an escort is that every man’s reasons for paying for sex are different.  That’s not to say that i’m retracting from my statement that all (most) are  the same in the sense of being hard wired to seek sex … but i have learned that the path that they tread is not the same – in fact, how they ended up seeking the services of an escort can be so strikingly different.

One thing I’ve learned myself is that the role of an escort is much more than just sex.  Men open up to their escort; they’ve really already broken taboo by paying for sex … so often they are already very open and there is a degree of ‘escapism’ involved with every meet that further encourages them to open up.

I have found myself listening to the most heartbreaking stories, of which i won’t repeat, from men who are not married, who are not cheating and never have and who have such deeply inspiring stories to tell.  All of this is openly shared during the usual conversation that starts with: “So, what made you get into this?”

I never judge, never delve deeper…i just listen.  There can be no emotional aspects to escorting on either part but there have been some very emotional stories behind what shapes some men’s paths towards meeting with an escort.

Some of the reasons are just emotionally draining for me, even though i can’t show it.  I am only human.  In a way, you’re paid to be an ‘object’ … something that doesn’t answer back, doesn’t demand anything, doesn’t need anything.  It’s only now that i have just realized that i naturally referred to myself as a ‘something’.

Of course, the reason a lot of men give, if any, as most are actually so well self-deluded by their own warped little rationalizations that they happily pass by full of entitlement, is that their ‘wife is just not interested’.  I believe them, after all… they don’t need to tell me anything and the revelation is hardly even that.

I really wish i could share some of the reasons that men do choose to pay for sex, to explain the look and hurt that is genuinely and evidently on their faces as they unveil their stories; i wish i could because it would help to show that at least IN THIS ONE WAY…not all men are the same.  But i simply feel bound to keep those stories in my heart and mind.

In any case, even when the focus is upon spending time with a man and ‘just talking’, i can’t think of any that still don’t expect sex.  Sex – it all comes down to sex …

 

 

 

 

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